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How Often Do You Apologize?

Have you ever been hurt? Have you ever hurt someone?

I heard a resounding "YES!" on that one.

So, what's harder? Apologizing? or Accepting an apology?

I think we can all agree that apologizing is more difficult than accepting an apology.  For that reason, I believe that many people don't apologize to those that they have hurt.

Personally, I believe that apologies (sincere ones) have a great impact on relationships - how they function and how they grow (or not). I don't believe that anyone is exempt from apologizing because no one is perfect.  We will do things to hurt people or upset people.  It is then our responsibility to rectify the situation by (sincerely) apologizing and restoring that relationship to its original state. Of course there may be situations where both people in the situation must apologize because they both behaved inappropriately.

Why give an apology?

• To acknowledge that you know the other person was hurt
• To confirm that you accept responsibility
• To make sure it won’t happen again
• To reconcile the relationship
• To restore your reputation 
 
Let me share something with you that I came across online:

"An apology can often be the first step to better understanding in a damaged relationship. It says that you share values regarding appropriate behavior towards each other, that you have regrets when you don’t behave according to those values (intentionally or unintentionally), and that you will make greater efforts to live up to your shared standards of behavior. Timing can be crucial. An apology delayed may be an opportunity lost". 

Now I know that we've all heard the apologies that start off like this: "I'm sorry, but..." Yeah well, I'M sorry, a sincere apology goes NOTHING like that! Take responsibility for your actions people!

I challenge you to apologize to each person that you hurt or offend this week. Heck, you can even keep it going for a lifetime!

"Apology is a lovely perfume; it can transform the clumsiest moment into a gracious gift". -Margaret Lee Runbeck

April Showers, Bring May Flowers

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I just want to share a few of my my April blessings with you! :)

My husband and I celebrated our first anniversary on April 12th! Although, we didn't go out of town, we took a few days off of work and stayed in sunny South Florida (although it rained on our actual anniversary) and just enjoyed each other's company! Long story short - we had something like a second honeymoon! :)

The first year was a blessing to both of us! And if the first year is supposed to be the hardest, I am definitely ready for what's to come! I'm excited about it, to say the least.

Lol my review went NOTHING like the above picture. I actually had my annual review as soon as I came back from my mini vacation and that went well! Of course, there are some areas that I need to improve on, but overall, my boss has been pleased and I think that makes both us very happy!

In April, I have been showered with countless blessings (only a few of which were mentioned here) and as we cross over into May, I look forward to the flowers that will blossom in my life from this point on!

I kept my promise! In my last post, I promised to make my next post a positive one!

Have a blessed day & weekend :)

I Wish, I Wish

Ever wish that people would do their part and pull their weight?

That's how I'm feeling today. I am seriously considering stepping down from some of my responsibilties. I often spread myself thin and end up unhappy and miserable.

Jack of all trades and master of none - Ever heard that phrase? Maybe I should stick to one or two things and just put great time and effort into those things and not always try to do everything.

I am going to pray about it. Will you pray with me?

I just wish that people would be more serious and put certain things in perspective.

Very short today. Just needed to vent...

...the next post will be a happy one. I pwomise.. and yes I spelled it like that on purpose! LOL

“My recipe for dealing with anger and frustration: set the kitchen timer for twenty minutes, cry, rant, and rave, and at the sound of the bell, simmer down and go about business as usual” -Phyllis Diller

... and with that said... Life goes on! :)

I'm Blogging!

I always fight with myself about joining new networks because my plate is MORE than full! I have read other blogs and I feel that it is an interesting way to express yourself and to keep up with everyone else.

I will be sharing about my experience and thoughts as a daughter, sister, wife, friend, confidant, employee and child of God! I promise to blog whenever I get the chance.

So... Welcome to the Green's Mile! :)